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Helping
Your Child with Handwriting
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Children who paint or write in cursive, but who are unable to write
legibly and consistently, in spite of repeated admonitions, require
special approaches to the solution of their special difficulties. These
are youngsters who are unable to properly form their letters, who have
difficulty keeping their letters on the line, who may not seem to
understand the relative sizes of letters, who either crowd letters within
words together, or who space so poorly that it is almost impossible to
determine where one word ends and another begins. The net result is that
what they have written is often difficult or near impossible to decode,
even when it is spelled correctly. Here are suggestions other parents have
successfully used to help their children.
Our alphabet is based on geometric shapes-the circle, cross, square,
and triangle. Get a large chalkboard, or make one. Dad can purchase a
sheet of masonite from the local lumber company and then get a can of
chalkboard paint from the hardware store. Use at least a four-by-four
surface (larger would be even better). Select a wall in your home that is
convenient and, after it is dry, tack it up. Let your child practice
drawing circles and other geometric forms, nice and large.
Finger painting is a messy activity unless you have a law area that
won't be too difficult to clean. Oil cloth on an old table or on concrete
or vinyl floor works quite well. Use a plastic apron on yourself and your
child. Have him roll the paint around in huge circles so that not only his
hands, but his elbows and shoulders are involved. Just playing with shapes
on the slippery surface helps tremendously. Making shape designs is fun
and reinforces the development of shape constancy.
When children just can't seem to stay "on the line" as they
print or write, try using a red felt tip pen to rule across the lines that
will be the bottoms of letters. You may also want to use a green felt tip
pen just to remind your child when to begin his strokes, since printed
letters start basically at the top and go down.
Clay can be purchased from crafts stores in twenty-five pound sacks,
often for under $5.00. Letting children mold the clay into forms gives
them another kind of experience with shapes, but in a three- form that is
helpful for form recognition. They can also form "snakes" and
make letters, even their own names.
Quite often children hold pencils and crayons in an awkward manner and
grasp. To develop the strength in the hands and fingers for proper grasp,
let your child do activities that require holding or hanging. Make good
use of your school play yard. Let him hang by his hands from the jungle
gym to develop strength in the shoulder girdle as well as his hands.
Squeezing objects, such as little rubber balls, or playing with wooden
clothespins help to develop finger coordination and strength.
One of the prerequisites for handwriting is the ability of the eyes to
work in close cooperation with the hands. This means that the eyes
themselves must be able to move smoothly and must be able to follow moving
targets. General motor coordination (balancing, hopping, running,
skipping, et cetera) is necessary for laying the groundwork for smooth,
fine muscle control. Play, for example, flashlight tag with your child.
This requires two flashlights and a dark room. You be "It" and
see if your child can, with his flashlight, "tag" your light.
Play tracing games. Have your child sit next to you with his eyes
closed. Take his writing hand, index and middle fingers pointing and the
other fingers flexed, and a-ace a shape or letter on a large surface. See
if he can guess what shape or letter you traced.
If you're prepared to be squirted, and it's a warm day, and your back
yard has a sunny wall, try this one. Get a squirt gun and let your child
"write" letters with water on the wall. The sun will dry the
letters reasonably fast. This allows your child to use space and estimate,
on a large surface, just how he will execute the proper formation of the
letter.
Observe the way your child sits when he writes. As a check, try this
yourself. Sit at a table so that your elbows comfortably rest on the
surface. Then fold your hands in front of you, flat on the desk so that
your body and folded hands form a triangle. If you are right-handed, the
paper would go directly under that folded arm. If you are left-handed, the
paper would go directly under that folded arm. Notice that when you old
the pencil, after this experiment, that the writing hand touches the
surface of the paper directly along the line of the little finger and
wrist. If you are right-handed, your back and head will be slightly curved
to the left. (Vice-versa for the left-hander.) If your child is doing
anything other than this, it means that he is not ready for the activity,
or it is too demanding for him. It may also suggest that he has visual
difficulties in the way he uses his eyes. (This does not necessarily mean
that he has poor vision.)
If a child continues to reverse letters, even as his handwriting
improves, give him opportunities to identify left and right on his own
body. Play games requiring use of just the left hand or the right hand or
the left foot or the right foot. Play "blind man's bluff, in which
you must direct him across a room by giving him turns to make. Have him
direct you when it's your turn.
If you notice that your child continually holds his pencil right at the
tip, it ran suggest that too much pressure is required for holding it
properly. Try using a rubber band, twisted several times, and place it
just above the shaved area. This will provide a tactile reminder on where
to hold it.
"Rhythmic writing" is a term applied to law handwriting at a
chalkboard. On the chalkboard you've made for home use, have your child
stand so that he is facing the center of the board. Then, if he is
right-handed, have him start a series of "e" letters, all
connected, and all moving from left-to-right. As he moves from
left-to-right with his writing hand, he should keep his feet firmly
planted in one spot, and move his arms as far as he can. Then he can
practice with "y" letters, and then combine "e" and
"y" across the board.
If you have a large sink area with a formica top, carefully
"Soap" it. Don't make it too wet or you'll have a mess in the
kitchen. Let your child stand by it and practice writing his letters, one
at a time. Again, it is good for getting the "feel" of the
letters. You can also take his hand, as in finger-painting, and move it
through the slick surface, to form specific letters that are difficult for
him.
Encourage your child to use what he learns. Go on a sign-making spree.
Let him write (and decorate) signs that say, for example, "This is
Jimmy's room. Enter at your own risk," et cetera. He can help you
prepare a shopping list or birthday list. You'll undoubtedly have dozens
of ways your child can use his developing skill in a practical way.
Play games with plastic letters that can be purchased at most local
variety and school supply houses. These come in two forms both
manuscript-upper (capitals) case and lower (small letters) case.
In order to print a letter a child must be able to visualize the shape
of the letter. Let your child take one of the plastic letters and feel it
with his eyes dosed. Can he recognize and name it? Can he draw it even if
he is unable to name it? Let him describe it as he is feeling the surface
and the sides. On confusing letters such as "h" and
"n," which many children have difficulty with, let him feet
them, one at a time, and help him feet the difference between the two.
When a child develops proper formation of letters, particularly in
cursive, but does not maintain a constant slant, try this. Even though it
takes a little time, it is worth it. With a ruler, pencil-in diagonal
lines, very lightly, across the paper. These diagonal lines should be
carefully done so that they provide "guidelines" for your child.
As he writes, he has a visual set of "clues" to use to make sure
his letters all slant the same way.
Keep in touch with your child's teacher as your youngster works at home
with you to develop his skills in handwriting. Try not to make your child
feel that he isn't "trying hard enough" or that you "just
can't read it, it's so bad. Words of encouragement go a long way with
children, just as they do with adults, and they are truly a significant
part of any home activity that is designed to help a child.
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